Friday 1 February 2019

The 5 Love Languages - Book Review

You might have heard many real life stories, where the couples will be flying like love birds in college together always. Yes, Cupid can make you Stupid sometimes ( All true lovers, please forgive me). However, after marriage they cannot live together even for four months. So there is some missing link, which the marriage couples have failed to understand. 

In the book, “The 5 Love Languages”, Gary Chapman helps the readers, to understand their partner's love languages and gives the missing link. Understanding your life partner's love language will help you to lead a peaceful life ( I bet that, you won't get this peace even in Meditation ). It is also more important than understanding your Boss’s language [ Because your wife is the real Boss ].




Gary Chapman is affectionately called as “Miracle Worker” by his followers. He have helped many couples across the world to live a happy and successful marriage life. 

We have received lots of funny WhatsApp messages portraying that it is difficult to decrypt, what is inside the mind of a girl. However, in this book Gary Chapman have solved the mystery finally with his 45 years of experience in marriage counselling ( I have cross verified the contents of the book with my wife and she confirmed that the Author (Men) is right. First time in the history, a Men is right). 



This book gives lots of Gyan (advice) not only for Men, but also for Women. If you want to know the answers for your husband behavior, it might hold the answer. 


The book strongly highlights that, "If you need to live a happy and peaceful life, you need to know the love language of your partner and do everything possible to fulfill it".

Five Love Languages :
1. Words of Appreciation.
2. Gifts.
3. Acts of Service.
4. Physical Touch.
5. Spending Quality Time.


I could not keep the book down, as I could relate the contents of the book with my life. Most of the time while reading the book, I smiled myself and told silently 'Gary, you are right'. He have given solutions for all the problems, that are faced by the marriage couples in this modern age. 

Husband Vs Wife :
Husband - Husband thinks that, he is working more than 12 hours everyday for the family and his wife should appreciate him. However if your wife’s love language is “Quality Time” (Spending time together), then there is no use in working more than 12 hours and earning that extra penny.
Wife – If your Husband’s love language is “Words of Appreciation”, then there is no use in doing "Acts of Service" 24x7. 




I will request you to read the book to know more the principles of "The Five Love languages". It has lots of real life testimonials about how Gary Chapman have saved lots of marriages across the world. Even-though it is a fat book, it is worth reading it as it will surely improve your marriage life. 

Strongly Recommended :
Boys/Girls  - I strongly recommend this book to the Boys / Girls who will be in a marriage relationships soon.
Married Couples – Even if you think that your marriage life is going on the right track, it helps you to make it better. 
Lovers – Even the lovers who are in Cloud nine currently also must read this book.  
Parents – Each and every parent in this Universe [ Yes including the Aliens] must gift this book to their children before marriage.

Marriage Gift :
Instead of buying a flower bouquet that will fade within days, I strongly recommend you to gift this book to the newly married couple.




It is the best gift, which you can request your life partner to present this Valentine's Day. Inform your life partner that "I am going to read this buook to correct myself*, to improve our marriage life". Yes, you need to mention it clearly that you are going to read to change yourself. 


I am confident that, If you read this book and follow the principles mentioned in it,you will have a happy successful marriage life. 


[Click the above Image to Buy this book on Amazon] 

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